facebook Love: Where Does Love Come From? - Vigyaa

Delete Collection?

Are you sure you want to delete this collection permanently?


Delete Collection?

Are you sure you want to delete this collection permanently?

Everyone has a Story to Tell and an Experience to Share!

Let’s Start Writing


Love: Where Does Love Come From?

While some people say money makes the world go round, other people say that it is love that makes the world go round. Each outlook deserves to be heard and the outlook that one has is likely to depend on what they're like as a person.

While some people say money makes the world go round, other people say that it is love that makes the world go round. Each outlook deserves to be heard and the outlook that one has is likely to depend on what they're like as a person.

If one was an idealist they might say it is love and yet if they are a realist, they might say it is money. But if one was to step back from both of these options, it is clear to see that the world goes round no matter what people believe.

What their outlook will also reveal is what it is that drives them, or at least what they think is it that drives them. Some people might say it is money that drives them and other people might say it is love. There are also going to be people who say that both of these things push them forward.

The Difference

However, although money always represents the same thing, the same can't be said about love. With money there can be different currencies and the value of the currencies can change, but what it represents doesn't change.

Love on the other hand is not always the same, even though the same word is used. It can all depend on what ones relationship is with the person in question. And not only that, but one can say they love an animal or an object that they own.

The Meaning

So just like someone who has plenty of money and ends up throwing it around, one can throw the word 'love' around too. It then doesn't matter if they are talking about a human being or an inanimate object or an animal.

Therefore, the word is the same, but it is not always going to mean the same thing. In fact, it could be nothing more than a saying that one has and there is then no much to it. At other times when one uses the word, it is going to be a lot more significant and this is because the word will have a different meaning.

Behind The Word

If one was asked to describe what they mean when they say they love someone, they might say it depends on who the person is. For instance, if one is married and they say they love their husband/wife, it is not going to be the same as the love they experience for a friend or a family member.

Just as the love they have for a car is going to be different to the love they have for their pet dog or cat. However, although there will be differences there are also likely to be similarities. When it comes to describing what love is, it is often said that it is a feeling that one experiences.

And as one feels a certain way, it then causes them to behave in a certain way. This is how the love that one feels becomes visible to other people. Without the behaviour to back it up, it is not possible for other people to be aware of the love that one feels for them or for another person.

But unless one felt the love on the inside, it wouldn't be possible for them to show it on the outside. So this means that it has to start somewhere and one area that is associated with love is the human heart.

The Human Heart

For some people, the heart is nothing more than something that keeps them alive; with its function being purely biological and there is nothing more to it. There are then going to be other people who see it as something more and based on their experience, it has an intelligence of its own.

One might then see that there is not only the brain in their head that has something to say, the heart is also there with its intelligence/wisdom and then there is the body that also has another way of expressing itself. This has also been described as the triune brain.

Pure And Simple

So if one was to move their point of awareness to their heart, they might soon realise that it is a place of warmth and peace. It is free from judgement and criticism; it is understanding and accepting. There are no conditions that one has to fulfil and this is something that will never change.

It is going to be normal for some people to connect to the heart in this way, but there are going to be some people who are unable to do this. And this could be due to the emotional pain that they're carrying.

Far From Simple And Pure

There is the heart and what is has to express, and at the same time, it is not possible for one to always express their heart to the world. What this means is that human beings have a heart that is unconditional with its love, but in order to survive and to thrive, they have to create conditions.

This is done to protect their mental, emotional and physical well-being. For there are going to be times when the best thing one can do is to walk away from someone and to withdraw their love. Not only will this be in ones best interests, it will also be the best thing one can do for another person.

Another Factor

One thing that can stop love in its tracks is when there is control. The body is then taking over and ones heart is not being given the chance to express itself. This could also be a sign that one is carrying emotional pain or trauma in their body.

So one outlook is that loves comes from the heart and this love can then change when it is combined with ones bodily needs or their intellect. The human heart is unconditional with its love, but it is not possible for human beings to express their love without conditions being in place.

If one has trouble connecting to their heart and expressing their love to themselves and to others, it could be a sign that they need to engage in some kind of emotional work. This can be done with the assistance of a therapist or a healer.

If you feel this has been of value, please leave a comment, like or get in touch. And feel free to share this article, as many others have.

Teacher, Author, Transformational Writer & Consultant - With Over 2,000,000 Article Views Online.


Love Relationships

Related Articles

Looking for the best date ideas? We are concerned about your date so here are some of the ideas when it’s raining. Rain is something that can make your day to break your day Outdoor and Indoor activities can be a part of this list which might interest you. Rain is the season of love where we usually wanted to be interactive with our partner more. Isn’t this? Rain is all about love and romance. Why you’re not thinking to make it more romantic with your partner? Don’t be so boring check out the ideas below and make sure to make your rainy season more special

So here is the list of some fun rainy days ideas whether you stay prefer being at home or go out for enjoying the weather.


1. Have a Night and a Paint Night

These are now pretty popular date ideas but have you ever thought about recreating it at home? If you have any fancy paints and canvas. You can find tons of tutorials on YouTube. Be together and create the best moments by capturing each other best moments. Don’t forget to give the name of your canvas of memories.

2. Cooking Together

Usually, when it is raining we all have a craving for eating something. Rainy days are not only meant to enjoy the cheesy-balls and a cup of tea. Well, have you ever thought of cooking this delicious stuff together? I know you haven’t, just imagine you and your loved one to be together in the kitchen with bit cuddling and kisses and enjoying the rain. Woah! So here is your recipe for rain is ready with the perfect indoor date.

3. Cozy up to an indoor picnic on a rainy day date

We always plan picnic outdoor but this time is different and tries out the indoor picnic. Make a set up with blanket and pillows along with the fireplace. Make some special yummy food. This can be a great time to play romantic and funny games that bring you both closer. You can also add to your creative ideas.


4. Have Rainy Swim

Why not go swimming in the rain? You won’t be worried about getting wet but it will more charming to see you both together enjoying the rain. Some of you might not have your home pool so you can join the community pool. Rain swim is surprisingly romantic.

5. Singing and Dancing at the rain for a Cute and Romantic Rainy Day Date

If your hobby is dancing and singing then why not try out your hands on singing and dancing. Dance with madness by holding a cute umbrella with the pain of colorful rain-boots. Well! Now you’ll be ready to be the own director of this musical movie. Make your partner sing and dance with you.

6. Rain Photography

Rain Photography can be more beautiful. Head out and find some magical water-soaked streets, trees, flowers, and more for your photos. Make sure to have a raincoat for your camera. If you love photography then this can be a tough competition. Make your photography unique and capture the best moments. This can be a photo scavenger hunt. Well, your date still goes on when you are back home by figuring out a way to put them in use.

These ideas seem to be simple but they’ll let you create memorable romantic moments. I hope these ideas will help you out to create the best moments. Make sure to find out the best ideas and create them with your personal touch. This above-mentioned idea will help you in making your moment more special. 

Reference Image